How to Stay Busy & Not Feel Lonely Over Christmas Break at Uni

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How to Stay Busy & Not Feel Lonely Over The Christmas Break at Uni

 

If you’re staying in accommodation over the Christmas break, you might find the campus a little quieter, your flat emptier, and the days slower than during term time. But it doesn’t have to feel isolating, this break can be a chance to rest, try new things, or build connections.

Here’s a student-friendly guide to making the most of your Christmas stay and keeping loneliness at bay.

 


Ways to Stay Busy & Connect Over the Break

Here are some realistic, fun ideas for students who stay on campus or in town during Christmas:

Join or Organise Festive Gatherings

– Host a Secret Santa with other students staying over.

– Organise a quiz night or movie night in your flat or common room. Turn on Christmas films or make a playlist of seasonal songs.

Volunteer Locally

– Volunteering is a great way to feel connected and purposeful.

– Look for opportunities with local charities, food banks, or community centres, many need extra help around the holidays.

Get Outside & Active

– Go for winter walks around campus or your town. Fresh air and daylight help boost mood.

– Look for local outdoor activities, Christmas markets, ice skating, or seasonal lights are often still around.

– Join a fitness class (ie yoga) if your uni or local gym is running sessions. Staying active is good for both mental and physical health.

Explore Your City

– If you’re in or near a city, take advantage of quieter streets during the break.

– Visit Christmas markets, cafés, or cosy pubs in your area, even solo, it can feel festive and grounding.

Build Structure, Even Without Classes

– Create a break routine for yourself: set times for relaxing, studying (if you want), exercising, and socialising.

– Use this time to pick up a new hobby or project, write, bake, draw, journal, or try something you never had time for during term.

Use University Support & Wellbeing Resources

– Many universities run special support systems over Christmas, so check what your uni offers (online communities, peer support, mental health services).

– Reach out via student networks or apps.

– Practice self-care: take days to unwind, put your phone away, meditate, or listen to podcasts.

 

Connect with Family & Friends Virtually

– Schedule video calls with your family or friends, even a short chat can help you feel connected.

– Host a virtual games night, quiz, or movie-watching session to stay in touch.

– Write letters or e-cards, sometimes slower, more thoughtful communication is more meaningful than constant messaging.

 

 


Why Staying Busy Matters for Your Wellbeing

 

– Having structure helps you feel less isolated.

– Building new connections and giving back boosts your sense of purpose.

– Being active (even with simple exercise) releases endorphins, improves your mood, and supports mental health.

 

 


Helpful Links if You Study in Winchester, Southampton, Solent or Surrey

 

University of Winchester:

Support for students staying over the break

University of Southampton:

Student Life wellbeing and support services

Solent University:

Health & Wellbeing support (including counselling)

University of Surrey:

Centre for Wellbeing, counselling & loneliness support

Thrive wellbeing & loneliness support